1. Consider these three points for "size"
1. Weight: Beginners should choose lightweight models weighing 300–500g for easier grip; Above 600g, most are imitation heavy-duty models, more realistic but can make your hands sore;
2. Channel length: Normally, 13–15cm is sufficient; any excess is just for appearance, so you don't have to pay for the "bigger" version;
3. Cup mouth elasticity: The entry design (tight mouth/flare mouth) affects the experience more than the "cup diameter" and is suitable for all types with good elasticity.
2. Softness and Firmness: How to Choose Between
Three Levels - Soft Version (about 0–3°C): Strong wrapping, gentle stimulation, life-like, first choice for beginners;
- Moderate style: Balance stimulation and comfort, only add after some experience;
- Tight style: Narrow channels, dense texture, strong stimulation, which can be overwhelming or dependent for beginners, so it's not recommended to buy on the first try.
3. The 4 most common pitfalls for beginners
1: Buying a "super stimulating"
style right away. Overly aggressive styles raise the bar and cause the experience to spiral out of control. Starting with gentle styles and progressing step by step is the right approach.
Pitfall 2: Buying unqualified materials for cheap
priceswith pungent odors = materials are substandard. Choose medical-grade silicone/TPE from reputable brands with quality inspection reports. A "knockoff hit" costing just a few dozen yuan carries far greater risks than the money saved.
Pitfall 3: Doesn't dry after washing, moldy channels
,and internal channels are the hardest to dry. After cleaning, be sure to use a water-absorbing or drying stick to dry it and then air dry it in the air after a few days. Otherwise, moisture and mold will revert within a few days—this is the main source of negative reviews for rerepairs.
Pitfall 4: Not using or using the wrong lubricant
damages both the material and yourself; Oil-based lubricants (such as petroleum jelly) can corrode silicone/TPE. Only use water-based lubricant; the amount should be more than less.
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ConclusionIn a nutshell: Size depends on weight and channel. For softness and firmness, beginners should choose soft models. Avoid the four pitfalls of "high irritation, no dryness, no dryness, and incorrect lubrication." With your first product, you'll know and use it with peace of mind.

