1. First, break through the three heart-to-heart barriers
. "How will people see me?" — No real human contact during online ordering; parcels use neutral cardboard boxes + opaque packaging, and waybills only list the product company name;
2. "Will my family see me?" ——Most stores support confidential shipping, allowing you to note "No product design required";
3. "Is this abnormal?" — Facing bodily needs is a sign of health; hundreds of millions of people worldwide consume it normally every year.
2. How to Choose Your First Item for Beginners
- Entry-level level: Low-strength, simple structure, priced under 100 yuan, low trial and error cost;
- Two Material Considerations: Medical-grade silicone (skin-friendly, easy to clean) is preferred, avoiding odorous materials like PVC;
- Don't be greedy for too many features: Don't chase the "multifunctional flagship model" for the first time; simple and user-friendly modes are more important;
- Noise and waterproofing: Less than 50 decibels for better coverage; Only fully waterproof can you wash with water, making cleaning more worry-free.
3. Pitfalls to avoid before placing an order
1. Choose a legitimate brand + official channels, check the quality inspection report, and skip products with no production certificates;
2. Check the key points in the review and review with pictures to understand the real user experience;
3. Confirm battery/charging method: Magnetic charging is better than dry batteries and has a longer lifespan;
4. Pay attention to the return and exchange policy. Most private items are non-refundable and non-exchangeable, and size functions should be confirmed in advance.
4. How to clean and maintain after receiving Clean
and maintain beforeand after use: Clean with warm water + neutral soap, or use specialized cleaning agents; After drying, store in a cool, dark place; Silicone materials should be avoided when used with oil-based lubricants; choosing water-based lubricants is safer.

